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  How To Remember Thee   I realised that I wanted, perhaps needed to do something outside the normal to remember Tom. He was a huge part of my young adult life; we were inseparable for years. Flowers, a bench, and some nice words would do little to echo or remember who he was to me.   Tom's 20th/21st birthday, I'm the handsome young man at the front. We did many things together, Raves, Festivals, countless drug and alcohol-fuelled adventures, sitting up all night discussing politics, philosophy, climate issues and how to fix the world or what we could do to improve our own lives and circumstances. We talking about girls we liked and how to approach them, we talked family and futures, we dicussed what we loved and what we did not. We played Chess and Poker two games Tom was always hugely passionate about, Poker was not my thing but I’d take pleasure in frustrating Tom at Chess. Games are my thing, always have been, I see them and how they work very quickly no mat...
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  A companion falls before their time       There is never an easy way to start a conversation about someone who went on many adventures with you both in the real world navigating the nightmare challenges of everyday life as well as the fantasy lands of our imagination. One of the few certainties we have in life is that we shall all die, but no one prepares you for the loss of those whose time comes way to early and the increased frequency in which it happens. Many brave companions who were very important to those around them have fallen leaving a combination of grief and beautiful memories in their wake. You do not tend to grow up with much of an understanding of this, leaving many ill-prepared for such continuous loss. So, as I write this, with a heavy heart, another soul was lost on the 12th of June 2024, someone I loved dearly, and this short blog series is going to show how I've decided to honour his memory. My friend meant a lot of different things to d...